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One of many of Various Inc’s websites, along with and 99 Flavors, Sexfinder firmly believes that it should be the sex that’s supposed to take long—not the search for it. 

With over 89 million members worldwide, the dating site claims to introduce its users to like-minded and sexually-charged individuals. 

The site allows you to voice out and explore your most secret fantasies and fetishes. As it is open for singles, couples, swingers, and LGBT members, finding whatever floats your boat at Sexfinder is not impossible.

Still, all that glitters is not gold: reports question the authenticity of numerous Sexfinder profiles. Standard users also get limited functionality and may not be too happy to note the pricier tags. 

If you want to know if joining is worth the buck, you’re at the right place. Read on as we inspect and review every feature and cost of one of the biggest hookup sites.

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Sexfinder Member Structure

100,000 from New Zealand
Members activity
1,000 new members per month
Gender Proportion
30 %
70 %
  • You get a personal profile which you can fill out
  • Over 395,000 monthly visits worldwide
  • Records over 100,000 monthly new members worldwide
  • Male users outnumber the females
  • Most users are 25 years old and above
  • Couples can sign up together

Males aged 25 years old and above are the most active users of Sexfinder. This comes as no surprise; this is the period that a man’s libido is said to be at its peak.

Regardless of gender, the members of Sexfinder are looking forward to spicing up their sex lives. They want to satisfy their fetishes and fantasies and are very much open to trying out hot and unconventional bedroom activities.

It is also interesting to note that most users subscribe to a Gold Membership. It seems like members are willing to pay good money as long as their wants are met.

Props to Sexfinder for being inclusive to the rainbow community. Not only do they cater to gays, lesbians, and trans, they also included the bi-curious. 

With members’ ages ranging from 18 to as old as the 60s, there’s hopefully a bit of everything to meet everyone’s carnal cravings.


Age Distribution

  • 18-24
  • 25-34
  • 35-44
  • 45-54
  • 55+

Signing Up at Sexfinder

Sexfinder Sign Up
  • Must be at least 18 years old to sign up
  • 5-10 minutes sign up process
  • No match suggestions upon registration
  • Email verification is required
  • No Facebook registration offered

Registration at Sexfinder is pretty straightforward. Just make sure you are at least 18 years old and capable of filling out all five forms of the signup process.

  • Form #1:

The first form requires you to identify what you are (man, woman, or trans). You can also sign up as a couple if you want to give the swinger lifestyle a try. 

  • Form #2:

This one asks what you are looking for in the site. Are you looking for men, women, other couples, or trans members?

  • Form #3:

Next, you need to provide your birthdate and location. The latter is so Sexfinder can point you out to the local members near your home.

  • Form #4:

Additional information will be asked from you in the fourth form. Choose your race, body type, orientation (straight, bi-sexual, bi-curious, or gay), and marital status (single, married, divorced, separated, attached, or widowed) from the options Sexfinder listed. 

If you’d rather keep this information to yourself, you can answer “Prefer not to say.”

  • Form #5:

The last form requires a little creativity: introduction and description writing. The introduction needs at least 10 characters, so you can keep it short and sweet. For the Description, you may opt not to write one or use the “Writing Ideas” for some examples.

Click “Done” and Sexfinder will immediately email an activation link. Click the “Activate Button” to take a peek of the hookup site.

Personality Test

You tend to enjoy things when you’re on the same page—sex is no different. To make sure you match with the personalities who are down for the same bed activities, Sexfinder created four quizzes. 

Ideally, users browsing your profile will get a clearer picture of what you are as a partner when they read these tests. However, most of the users prefer to skip these quizzes as they might take some time to complete.

  • Personality Type

With questions and answers based on the Myer-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI), Sexfinder’s Personality Type is a 25-item questionnaire. 

Choose among the four options (Strongly Disagree, Somewhat Disagree, Somewhat Agree, and Strongly Agree) to share your thoughts. Statements will cover how you are as a person, friend, social being, and romantic partner. 

Sixteen (16) optional questions are also available to answer your dating preference and how you are as a sexual partner.

  • Additional Questions

If you’d rather give pointers on what you’re looking for, Sexfinder gives you the chance to do so with Additional Questions.

In this multiple choice and essay-type section, bare all by answering questions about your bedroom activities, fantasies, and accessories. If you wish to form deeper connections, answer questions on your dreams and goals. 

You may also give potential matches a glimpse of your day-to-day life by asking questions on your hobbies, work and home environment, and your general outlook on life.

  • Purity Test

See how you fare sexually with Sexfinder’s Purity Test. Tick the box if you’ve already done the enumerated activity. 

Sexfinder will tally your answers to determine if you’re one fine sexual beast or a lustful novice.

  • My Kinks

Sexfinder’s My Kinks quiz lets you enumerate all the sexual activities you’re willing to try. It even allows you to determine how participative you will be by giving you the choice to be the doer, receiver, or spectator.

This quiz also gives you a glimpse of what to expect in a Sexfinder partner.

These tests created by Sexfinder all aim to acquaint you and your possible matches before meeting up. That way, you can skip and move on if it seems like your arrangement won’t work.

Making Contact on Sexfinder

Sexfinder Messaging
  • Access to direct messages is a premium feature
  • Standard accounts can join blog forums and groups
  • Comes with an option to communicate with live cam models
  • You can join chat rooms for free
  • Members can interact through the IM service

With over 89 million members worldwide, there’s a lot of bases to cover at Sexfinder. What's good about the website is that it offers a lot of features so people can communicate with each other.  

Of course, paying members have the upper hand when it comes to communication. They have all these features at their disposal:

  • Direct Messages

Since Gold members can view complete profiles, they also get to send a direct message if they like what they’re seeing. 

Through this, they can attach photos, share private albums, send virtual flowers, send a link, and decorate their message by adding bling and their signature.

Aside from sending one, they can also read and respond to messages from other fellow Gold Members.

  • Friend Network

Over time, your sexual partnerships can turn into real-life relations. This is where the Friend Network feature comes in handy.

  • Flirt

Start the ball rolling by sending a Flirt. With this feature, share a wordless, but promising, flirtation.

  • Hotlist

Since we’re talking about millions of users, it’s probably wise to take a look at all the options first. To make sure you don’t miss out, add up to a thousand people into your Hotlist. 

That way, you can always look back when you're done browsing and ready for some interacting.

  • Icebreaker

Coming up with a witty pick-up line is not easy; once you do, you’ll want to use it for as long as you can. 

With Icebreaker, send your best opening statements to the people who match your preferences. 

Standard account users need not fret. These features are available without paying a dime:

  • Instant Messenger

The Instant Messenger (IM) is the website's messaging service with webcam capability for all of its users. Standard accounts can contact others granted that they are also logged in and using the IM service. 

Even better, free users can also start their live show using the IM service.

  • Joining Blog Forums

At Sexfinder, you can also showcase your writing prowess or share some naughty sex tips. To make sure your blog posts reach a bigger audience (and possible matches!), join blog forums. 

These forums are fielded based on a wide array of topics; write about your passion and share it with the right forum for instant connection.

  • Joining Groups

If you’re more of a conversationalist than a writer, you can still find your people at Sexfinder’s Groups. You can freely mingle with other members as you make arrangements for meetups near your home or talk about your interests.

  • Chat Rooms

Sexfinder also allows standard users to join chat rooms. This way, you can get in touch with multiple members at once.

Although Gold members have more options to get in touch with other members, it is nice to note there are ways for standard accounts to find hookups at Sexfinder.

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Sexfinder Profile Quality

Sexfinder Profile
  • Detailed member profiles
  • Easy to supply and edit information
  • Upgrade to view full-sized photos and full-length videos
  • Upload photos and videos for free
  • Upgrade to view profiles
  • Offers two ways to verify accounts

    What’s rather neat about Sexfinder is the jam-packed profile that members can create and edit for free. 

    To review complete profiles, however, you'll need to pay. If you plan to subscribe to a Gold Membership, or if a paying member using a standard contact feature reached out to you, here’s what you’ll see: 

    • Name, Age, Location, and Description

    Displayed at the upper left section is the member’s basic information such as their screen name, age, and location. 

    It will also feature the description which is the 10-character status the member filled out upon registration.

    • Photo Album

    As its name suggests, this section is where you can access all of the member’s photos and videos.

    • Introduction

    The introduction is also created upon registration. Ideally, it should include details such as what the member is looking for at Sexfinder.

    • Information

    Right under the introduction is the member’s information. The following will be displayed in this section:

    1. Sexual orientation
    2. Looking for
    3. Marital status
    4. Swinger type
    5. Language
    6. Birthdate
    7. Height
    8. Body type
    9. Astrology
    • My Kinks

    If you answered the 'My Kinks' quiz, then this section will display your preferences. This gives your profile viewer a glimpse of what you will be in bed.

    • Compatibility Chart

    The Compatibility Chart will feature results based on your Cupid Preferences. The latter is used to customise your browsing experience and filter the messages you receive. The details needed are:

    1. Looking for
    2. The preferred age range of partner
    3. Location of your suggestions
    4. Race
    5. Body type
    6. Sexual orientation
    7. Marital status
    • Top Fan

    A Top Fan is a member who not only added you to their Hotlist; they made sure to be the most visible by bidding on you. Having a Top Fan will also boost your popularity as it shows you offer steamy and premium content.

    • My Activities

    This section will display your activities, from uploading a new photo to becoming friends with another member. 

    • Bling

    Bling is a decorative icon, a cross between an emoji and a GIF, that you can use in messages. All the Blings you used will be displayed in this section.

    • Testimonials

    Members can also leave you with some glowing testimonials. These testimonials can be a nice way to boost your profile and popularity.

    • Friend Network

    All the friends you made at Sexfinder will be displayed in this section.

    • Send a Message

    Located at the bottom left of a member’s profile is the Send a Message feature. Aside from the text, you can also do the following:

    1. Attach photo
    2. Share private albums
    3. Add smileys
    4. Send virtual flowers and gifts
    5. Share a link
    6. Attach your profile, bling, and signature
    • Interact Options

    Aside from direct messages, you also have other means to interact with members:

    1. Add to Hotlist
    2. Send a Flirt
    3. Send a friend request
    4. Send a Tip
    5. Refer them to a friend who’s currently not a Sexfinder member

    Sexfinder also offers two ways to verify your accounts. That way, users can easily judge if an account is a bot or a hot match. 

    One is to upload a photo of you holding out a handwritten sign bearing your user name; the other is to use the free ConfirmID feature—complete the process and you earn 500 points!

    Sexfinder App

    Sexfinder App
    • Available for iOS users only
    • Free to download
    • Mobile-friendly website for Android users
    • Easy to navigate
    • Features minimal ads

    Sexfinder does offer a mobile app, but it is only available for iOS users. If you are an Android user, the website is mobile-friendly so you can still log in with your smartphone whenever and wherever.

    We reviewed both the dating website’s mobile version and app and they maintain most of the features and colour schemes available on desktop. 

    On mobile, however, Sexfinder enjoyed a modern upgrade. From the placement of the icons and features down to the fonts used, the website looks and feels sleeker when browsed via mobile.

    What’s rather overwhelming on the desktop version is that the plentiful details look cramped. On mobile, it’s less wordy. Located at the bottom of the page are icons representing the search results, inbox, notifications, members' live broadcasts, and other contacting features.

    The quizzes, except for My Kinks, are noticeably absent from the mobile app. Other than that, you’re in for an almost ad-free and enjoyable mobile browsing experience.

    Sexfinder Real Life Review

    “I find it hard to maintain relationships so joining a hookup site is the practical solution for me—even better when the site is called Sexfinder! Upon signing up, I saw detailed profiles and very sensual individuals. I’ll be honest and say, it was overwhelming. But when I decided to just interact and forget about the quizzes and whatnots, I found that it was fun and easy. Paying for services was a good move, but I did have a nice time hitting it up with local users even when I wasn’t spending.” - Martin, 28

    Design and Usability

    Design-wise, Sexfinder features a simple and pretty straightforward interface. This is understandable considering that most users are age 25 and up—some may not be as tech-savvy. 

    Still, savvy or not, all members won’t have a problem accessing quality adult material. With the website’s Content Filter, a user can adjust the amount of erotic content they see on their feeds.

    White is the predominant colour of the adult dating site, orange is used for message notifications, while red is for all other alerts.

    Although it is straightforward, first-timers may find the site overwhelming. There are a lot of photos, texts, and tabs that can lead you elsewhere. All these tabs, however, bring you to features you can customise to suit your Sexfinder experience.

    Similar to defunct social media platforms Friendster and MySpace, profiles are detailed. Messaging features, notifications, and the main tabs (My Stuff, Search, Live Action, Community, and What’s Hot) are all placed at the topmost portion of the dating site. The inbox sports a simple and familiar design.

    Sexfinder Costs and Prices

    Free Services
    • Watch one live member webcam at a time
    • Full access to Instant Messenger
    • Edit and customise own profile
    • Add up to 200 members on Hotlist
    • Upload own pictures and videos
    • Edit search filters and Cupid preferences
    • Watch shows by live models
    • Start a broadcast on Instant Messenger
    • Join blogs and chat rooms
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    Fee-Based Services
    • Watch unlimited live member webcams
    • Full access to direct messages
    • View members' complete profiles
    • Add up to a thousand members on Hotlist
    • View full-sized photos and full-length videos
    • Access the Advanced Search feature
    • Access to Sex Academy
    • Send flirts and friend requests
    • Participate in Contests

    Is Sexfinder expensive or cheap?

    In comparison to other providers Sexfinder is above average.
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    Duration / Credits / CoinsCostsTotal
    Gold Membership
    3-Month Gold Membership subscription includes 15% Tax for New Zealand
    1 Month53.95 NZD / Month53.95 NZD
    3 Months35.94 NZD / Month107.81 NZD
    12 Months26.95 NZD / Month323.40 NZD
    Standard Contact
    3 Months21.95 NZD / Month65.85 NZD
    Includes 15% Tax for New Zealand
    200 Credits0.03 NZD / Credit5.35 NZD
    500 Credits0.02 NZD / Credit10.70 NZD
    1,000 Credits0.02 NZD / Credit17.84 NZD
    Search Highlights
    3-Month Search Highlights subscription includes 15% Tax for New Zealand
    1 Month17.95 NZD / Month17.95 NZD
    3 Months15.97 NZD / Month47.90 NZD
    Adult Movies
    1 Month33.95 NZD / Month33.95 NZD
    3 Months23.95 NZD / Month71.85 NZD
    Private Chat Room
    12-Month Private Chat Room subscription includes 15% Tax for New Zealand
    1 Month17.95 NZD / Month17.95 NZD
    3 Months12.95 NZD / Month38.86 NZD
    6 Months10.95 NZD / Month65.71 NZD
    12 Months8.95 NZD / Month107.40 NZD
    Sexfinder Cost NZ
    Payment Options
    • Credit Card
    Payment discretion
    • For your privacy, payments will be shown as*FRIENDF on your credit card statement.

    Most Sexfinder members avail of the Gold Membership which covers one, three, and 12 months. Aside from this paid subscription, Sexfinder also offers other features:

    • Points

    Points are Sexfinder’s currency. Spending it allows you to unlock additional features, send virtual presents, and interact with live cam models.

    • Search Highlight

    With over 89 million members, getting the right members to see your profile may prove to be a little tricky. To make sure you rank higher in searches, Sexfinder offers a Search Highlight feature.

    • Adult Movies

    At Sexfinder you can also access, stream, or download almost 2000 quality adult movies. Try it out for three days for just NZUSD3.57.

    • Private Chat Room

    This feature is like hosting an epic party—only that it’s virtual and therefore relatively easy to setup. Play as the flirty and welcoming host when you subscribe to this feature.

    Offering these features outside the subscription is rather flexible. That way, you don’t need to be a Gold member to purchase any add-ons if you don't plan to stay long.

    But if you seriously want to use the website at its fullest potential, we recommend subscribing to Gold membership. Doing so may greatly increase your chances of getting in touch with likable members.

    If you want to cancel your subscription, the process is quite simple; make sure to turn off the Auto-Renew function. If you don't want to finish the entire subscription term, you can also get in touch with Customer Service to fast-track the cancellation.

    Special Features

    Sexfinder does have a lot of features, and they are rather worth-noting:

    Multiple Accounts Linking

    Sexfinder is part of the Friendfinder Network, the very same company that is responsible for other adult dating and hookup websites like and AdultFriendFinder

    With the multiple accounts linking feature, you get to display your other accounts. That way, it makes networking easier as some members may recognise you from one of the other Friendfinder Network websites.


    Live-Action is the tab to be, especially if you’re a standard account user looking for some real action. 

    • Live Models - This is your gateway to meeting professional live cam models who are putting on some sensual shows. Standard accounts can view live shows; other interactions will have their corresponding price tags.
    • Live Member Webcams and Top Broadcasters - If you prefer amateurs, you can visit these tabs to take a look at your fellow member’s content. Standard accounts can view one broadcast a day.
    • Adult Chat Rooms - Widen your network and join one or two based on your location or interest.
    • Instant Messenger - If you’d rather go one-on-one, then you can try out the Instant Messenger. This service is available for all members. Everything’s good to go as long as the member you’re flirting with is online on IM.

    What’s Hot

    Stay up-to-date with the hottest members, photos, and videos at What’s Hot. You can also access the steamy Adult Movies when you visit this tab.


    Sexfinder is a gathering of sexually active individuals and this aptly named tab sums up what the collective group can do together. 

    At the Community tab, you get access to the following:

    • Blogs, Sexfinder Magazine, Groups, and Erotic Stories - Whether you’re a reader or a writer, or both, these features let you enjoy erotica at its most creative. Being an active contributor on these features also help you rub elbows with like-minded personalities that can potentially be a mind-blowing match.
    • Contests - Meant to excite and rile up the members' competitive spirits, Contests are monthly affairs where Sexfinder encourages members to upload their best photo or video that is suitable for the theme. Standard account holders can view, like, comment, and cast a vote during a Contest.
    • Sex Academy - For Gold members, the Sex Academy is home to tricks and tips one can learn and apply to their next bedroom session.

    Our rating

    Signing Up: 3.5 / 5
    Making Contact: 4.0 / 5
    Profile Quality: 4.0 / 5
    App: 3.0 / 5
    Real Life Review: 3.5 / 5

    Editor's Conclusion Author Chris Pleines
    With a large member count, multiple communication features, and a user-friendly interface, Sexfinder has the makings of a promising adult dating and hookup site. It isn’t perfect, though; some reports claim profiles are fake and services are pricey. Still, the growing number of users and their willingness to subscribe to a paid membership tell that you get more bang for your buck at Sexfinder. Sign up now!
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    Sexfinder FAQ


    Is Sexfinder legit?

    Yes, this adult dating and hookup site is legit. Sexfinder is part of the Friendfinder Network who is also the brains behind sites such as and

    Free Services

    Can I use Sexfinder for free?

    Registration and profile creation is free. Although there are functions that standard accounts can use, most of the communication and special features require you to purchase or subscribe.

    Can I send messages to Sexfinder members for free?

    It is possible to send messages if you and the other members will use Sexfinder's Instant Messaging service.


    What is Auto Renew and how do I turn it on/off?

    Once you turn this on, your Sexfinder membership and additional upgrades will automatically renew before the expiration date. Charges will still be billed to the credit card you linked in previous transactions.

    If you wish to turn it off, hover your mouse on "My Stuff" and click “My Account." Scroll down until you reach the “Manage My Accounts” section. Click “Billing History & Credit Card Info.” Click “Off” under product status to stop auto-renew.

    What is tipping?

    At Sexfinder, show your admiration by tipping. When you tip, you also place a bid towards becoming your favourite member’s Top Fan. As a Top Fan, you appear on their Hotlist and your messages are tagged as “from a Top Fan”.


    What are “Standard Member Popularity Privileges?”

    These are rewards for standard Sexfinder members who received a lot of profile views.

    What is the “Standard Contact” feature?

    Available for paying Sexfinder members, the "Standard Contact" feature makes your profile and inbox visible and accessible to non-paying users. 

    Are profiles censored? Is there any limit to what I can put in my profile?

    Sexfinder profiles should comply with the website's Term of Use. One such example is the strict implementation of privacy. Exclude personal details such as your address and identification if you don't want your account to be censored or suspended.

    What is the “Top Fans” program?

    As a Top Fan, you'll sport a special badge and show up first in your favourite Sexfinder member’s profile, Top Fan list, and notifications. This will show your favourite member that you are really into him or her. 

    Why can’t I access a Sexfinder Chat Room?

    If you can't access one, it's possible that it has already reached the maximum number of allowed standard account users. 

    How do I enter a Private Chat Room?

    Access to Sexfinder's Private Chat Room is by invitation only. Once you receive an invitation, visit the host's profile page and click on the link to the Private Chat Room.

    How do I turn the viewing of erotic content on or off?

    Log in to your Sexfinder account and hover your mouse on your username. From the drop-down menu, set your Content Filter to “No Nudity”, “Some Nudity”, or “Everything,” whichever suits you.


    What is the ConfirmID feature?

    This is a free third-party verification service that Sexfinder, and other Friendfinder Network sites for that matter, uses to confirm a member’s identity. To avail, click “My Account.” Scroll down to the “Update Profile” section then click “Get ConfirmID.”

    How do I report spam or solicitations that I receive in my Message Center or see in the chat rooms?

    If you want to report or complain about a certain member who violates Sexfinder's Terms of Use (i.e. spam, fraud, abuse, solicitations), take note of the following details:

    • Username of the offender
    • Details of the situation
    • A copy of the email you received
    • Chat text

    You may give Sexfinder a call or fill out the Report Member Abuse form.

    How do I block and prevent a Sexfinder member from sending messages?

    Log in to your account and go to the Message Center. From there select the conversation you had with the member. Click the "Abuse" button and then select the "Block User" option. From the pop-up, click the "Yes" button to confirm your decision. 

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