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FindSomeone Review New Zealand October 2026

Is FindSomeone the place where you can find love and lasting commitments? All about FindSomeone in New Zealand.
3.5good
Screenshot of the FindSomeone website
FindSomeone is a dating site for Kiwis and New Zealand residents seeking lasting relationships
  • Highly moderated by site administrators
  • No mobile app available
Relationships Casual dating Finding love
Is FindSomeone right for me?
last updated
Members in New Zealand515,000
Women / Men 48% 52%
From$4.95/mo
Age 18-24 25-34 35-44 45-54

FindSomeone New Zealand in 10 seconds

  • Dating site exclusive to dating Kiwis or residents of New Zealand
  • Operated by New Zealand’s #1 classified-ads site
  • Site is highly moderated by FindSomeone administrators
  • No mobile app available to download
  • Premium membership is available in 3 duration packages - Know more here here
  • Members organise events that other members can attend. Learn more

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Is FindSomeone right for you?

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Who is FindSomeone for, and not for?

FindSomeone is for…
  • Kiwis looking for serious relationships and deep commitments
  • Kiwi singles who want to find and fall in love
  • Foreign singles who live in New Zealand
…and not for
  • Those searching for erotic adventures and encounters
  • Singles who are into casual flirting
  • Kiwis looking for quick hookups
  • Cheating individuals searching for affairs

FindSomeone pros & cons

  • Suspected fake profiles are immediately suspended
  • Site moderators are active
  • See and attend physical events organised by the Gold Members
  • No mobile app to download
  • Only available in New Zealand
  • Free members can only see the first three pages of their matches

What FindSomeone really costs in New Zealand

Compared with other dating services, FindSomeone is average-priced.
Gold Membership
A subscription for paid membership features that renews automatically. Choose 1, 3 or 6 months, with the renewal price and duration able to change.Total
1 month 29.95 NZD / month 29.95 NZD
3 months 19.95 NZD / month 59.85 NZD
6 months 14.95 NZD / month 89.70 NZD
Our pick: 6 months costs 89.70 NZD in total at 14.95 NZD per month, 50% less than the 1 Month option. We recommend it for regular use because it covers messaging and other paid features.
Privacy Plus
A monthly add on that hides your profile, allows anonymous browsing and lets you control who can contact you.Total
1 month 4.95 NZD / month 4.95 NZD
FindSomeone costs last updated on Oct 17, 2026
Payment options in New Zealand
Bank TransferCredit CardCheque
No anonymous payment.With FindSomeone you cannot pay anonymously, the charge appears on your bank statement.
On your bank statement
Trade Me, the company shown on FindSomeone billing
FindSomeone costs screenshot

FindSomeone has one type of premium membership offered in three different durations. Premium subscription is auto-renewed, but not for the same price and package duration. 

FindSomeone also has an add-on, Privacy Plus, which you can purchase separately monthly. This type of add-on protects your privacy when using the site. It hides your profile from search queries, lets you browse anonymously, and allows you to control who can contact you.

Free vs. paid services in New Zealand
FeatureFreeGold MembershipPrivacy Plus
Build your profile includedincludedincluded
Browse profiles of members includedincludedincluded
Send smilesSend smiles, hugs, winks, and kisses to profiles you are interested in for free. includedincludedincluded
Like photos of members includedincludedincluded
Add people to your favourites listAdd profiles to your favourites list so you can always easily check up on them. includedincludedincluded
View all your matches not includedincludedincluded
Browse photo galleries not includedincludedincluded
Send messages not includedincludedincluded
See who has viewed your profile not includedincludedincluded
Organise and attend eventsAll members of the site are able to see the events and can send an RSVP to such events. not includedincludedincluded
Choose who can see your profileIt hides your profile from search results, allowing you to browse anonymously, and gives you control over who can contact you. not includednot includedincluded
You can browse profiles, make a profile, send smiles, like photos, and add favourites for free. Paid plans add messaging, matches, events, and privacy controls. Is FindSomeone right for me? →

How to cancel your FindSomeone subscription →

Is FindSomeone right for me?

Who is signed up on FindSomeone in New Zealand?

Exclusively on DatingScout: online member numbers for dating services are usually far off, so we estimate how many people are really on FindSomeone from traffic data and interest, updated monthly, with history.

The dating platform is only available for people residing in New Zealand, as the company currently only operates in that region. Despite localised membership, it has a surprisingly high number of members, so whichever city you live in, you will surely find someone who could match with you.

There is an almost even membership among age groups, but among the highest are the age groups 18 to 24, 25 to 34, and 45 to 54. The members are mostly straight singles, with male members dominating the population. However, this difference is only minimal, as men only made up 52 percent of the gender proportion.

5,500-35%
Rough estimate of active members
140,000
Weekly active members in New Zealand
515,000
Members in New Zealand
MayJunJulAugSepOct
Estimated active members, last 6 months
Gender
Age of members

Where FindSomeone is most popular in New Zealand

Strongest regions

  1. Marlborough District100%
  2. Southland58%
  3. Canterbury37%

Last data update: October 2026

How does FindSomeone work?

Provides matches based on dating preferences and dating information

Use the site's search filters to look for potential partners

Create, organize, and join matchmaking events

Send unlimited messages when you upgrade

Offers monthly premium plans

Making contact on FindSomeone

★★★★★ 3.0/5

  • You can send 10 smiles for free daily
  • You can add members you are interested in to your "Favourites" list
  • There is a recent activity timeline on the dashboard
  • Free members can only see the first three pages of their matches
  • Sending messages for free is not possible

Profile quality

★★★★★ 3.0/5

  • Profiles are highly moderated by FindSomeone administrators
  • There are indicators if a member has a premium membership
  • Profiles are categorized into three sections: Profile, Lifestyle, and Thoughts
  • Shows online status
  • Profiles can be emailed to friends
  • Profiles are pleasantly detailed
  • Profile pictures are visible to everybody for free

The FindSomeone app

  • No dedicated mobile application
  • Has a mobile version
  • Mobile site has the same features as the desktop version
  • Easy to use
  • Compatible with any mobile device

The website currently has no mobile app, but you can use its mobile-optimized site instead. The mobile version is easy to use and uses the same features as the web version. 

The mobile site is compatible with any mobile device and is accessible through any mobile browser.

Our field test

★★★★★ 3.0/5

“I moved to New Zealand alone, as an immigrant, five years ago, and I didn’t know anyone! I was done with school, I went here to work with the hopes of starting a new family. I initially went to browse TradeMe’s website to search for 2nd hand items for my new house, then I saw right on their website a link to FindSomeone. I clicked it and was redirected to the dating site’s home page. I signed up, got a 6-month membership, and connected to other members living on the island. I went to some dates, made friends with a lot until I found my now wife in one of the Events. The attraction was strong, and we hit it off after that. I thank the Event organiser for making us meet! We’ve been married for almost 3 years now, and I couldn’t be happier!” 

- John, 32, Auckland

Design & usability

The website design of FindSomeone is clean and straightforward. There is a huge chance that new users won’t have a hard time navigating it. All features can be easily found on the side menu, with different page tabs related to each specific feature. The website uses the colours blue, grey, and sometimes, salmon pink, to give emphasis to some activities. This makes its overall appearance clean and simple, helping its members have a smoother experience.

Special features

Besides the basic contacting features of FindSomeone, they also offer two special features on the site. These two features help the dating experience of FindSomeone more fun and exciting.

Showing interest 2

Smiles, hugs, winks, and kissesFree

Send smiles, hugs, winks, and kisses to profiles you are interested in for free.

FavouritesFree

Add profiles to your favourites list so you can always easily check up on them.

Community and events 2

Bootcamp

The course helps you get over your personal dating obstacles and change your mindset to a more open and positive view.

The programme is delivered straight to the email you provided upon signing up, and the course is taught by relationship specialist John Aiken. John Aiken is a private practitioner with over 20 years of experience in the field.

EventsFree

The Events tab lists all physical events organised by the Gold members of FindSomeone. All members of the site are able to see the events and can send an RSVP to such events. The events list shows the name of the event and the organiser, date, location, and how many people are attending.

There wouldn’t be any penalty if in case you responded that you are attending but you, unfortunately, cannot. However, the organiser will be able to take note of this and could delist your name on his or her next events.

Safety and privacy 1

Privacy Plus

When you use the site, this type of add-on safeguards your privacy. It hides your profile from search results, allowing you to browse anonymously, and gives you control over who can contact you.

Final results

3.5good
“FindSomeone may have basic features, but with its highly concentrated member base, it's likely that you will find the person you are looking for. The dating site is exclusively made for Kiwis, increasing your chances to find love near you if you are from New Zealand.”

Chris Pleines, Founder of DatingScout and Author of the book "Online Dating for Dummies"
Is FindSomeone right for me?
tested October 2026
Signup3.0
Making contact3.0
Profile quality3.0
Field test3.0
Overall3.5/ 5

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Compare FindSomeone with other dating sites

12 FindSomeone experiences from real users

1.7/ 5
★★★★★
17%
recommend FindSomeone
58%
got a date
Very good0
Good0
Average3
Poor2
Bad7
12 reader reports
What readers liked
  • Easy to access and use
  • Detailed and informative profiles
  • Genuine participants
  • Privacy protection
  • Easy cancellation or opting out
What readers complained about
  • Technical problems, crashes, and slow access
  • Fake or scam profiles and messages
  • Poor customer service and outage communication
  • Inactive or outdated member profiles
  • Low seriousness among some members
70 years
ChrisVerified FindSomeone user ★★★★★

Strange women. One didn't want to further our relationship because we didn't read the same books (we never met). One made contact then a week later broke off contact because she wanted someone younger (my age is quite clear on my profile). One visited me once, freaked out because I have a dog and then stopped any contact (again, the fact that I have a dog is clearly stated on my profile). Last one visited me a couple of times but thought it was okay to lecture me on various things, including my dog, my garden and the fact that I still have some of my deceased wife's clothes at home. She took a huff when I pointed this out and left immediately. I think it would be a good idea for all the women to ascertain what they really want from the site before they join up. So far my experiences have not been good and have left me with hurt.

Does not recommend FindSomeone
70 years
JacquelynVerified FindSomeone user ★★★★★

Too many scammers and men with very outdated photos.

Does not recommend FindSomeone
58 years
PatriciaVerified FindSomeone user ★★★★★

It's the same people on there for years and years, players. No one seems serious.

Does not recommend FindSomeone

Cancelling your FindSomeone subscription

How you can cancel

  • Via your profile settings on FindSomeone

Contact details

CompanyTrade Me Limited
AddressWellington, Wellington, New Zealand
Phone0900 746 453

Do subscriptions auto-renew?

Subscriptions renew automatically, cancel at least 7 days before your current term ends.

Money-back guarantee

  • FindSomeone does not offer a money-back guarantee

Do your credits expire?

Credits you buy on FindSomeone do not expire.

Is FindSomeone right for me?

FindSomeone FAQ

Who owns FindSomeone?

FindSomeone is owned and operated by Trade Me Ltd, which is the #1 auctions and classifieds website in New Zealand.

Which countries is FindSomeone available in?

FindSomeone is only available for singles in New Zealand.

Why are there other unrelated categories on the banner of FindSomeone’s home page?

There are unrelated categories on the banner of FindSomeone’s home page because the website is from a company that manages different classified ads sites. The categories redirect to these different websites.

MEMBERSHIP
Who can join FindSomeone?

Anyone can join FindSomeone, but it is highly marketed for Kiwi singles.

How do I join FindSomeone?

You can join FindSomeone through its homepage. You can also sign-up via Facebook to make your registration quicker.

Does FindSomeone offer premium membership?

Yes, FindSomeone offers premium membership in one, three, and six-month package durations.

What is ‘Privacy Plus’? Do I need to purchase it?

‘Privacy Plus’ is an add-on to your premium membership to protect your privacy. You can purchase it if you wish to browse anonymously and/or control who can contact you on FindSomeone.

Is FindSomeone’s premium membership auto-renewed?

Yes, premium membership is auto-renewed. You can turn the auto-renew off on your Account Settings.

Why was I charged for another amount? I signed up for a 6-month plan.

When your 3-month or 6-month FindSomeone premium membership plan ends, you will be rebilled with the monthly regular price of FindSomeone’s premium plan.

How do I cancel my premium subscription?

You can cancel your premium membership on your Account Settings, email, and customer support. You can enjoy the benefits of your FindSomeone premium plan up to the last day of your billing cycle.

Can I get a refund for my unused time?

Under no circumstance does FindSomeone give out refunds to their members.

I want to delete my account, how do I do that?

You can delete your FindSomeone account by clicking the ‘Remove my profile’ button on the Account Settings tab.

Why was my FindSomeone account disabled?

Your FindSomeone account may have been disabled because your profile was suspected to be fake or your profile has low quality. Your profile may also have been suspended because another member reported your profile for abusive behaviour.

USABILITY
How does FindSomeone work?

FindSomeone serves as a platform for Kiwis to connect and meet each other online. Members of the site can also attend physical events that are organised by their fellow members.

What features does FindSomeone offer for me to find someone from the site?

As a free member, you can send ten smiles daily, use the search filters, browse profiles and view the events organised by other members. If you are a premium member, you can send messages and organise meet-ups.

How come I can no longer send smiles?

If you are a free member, you are only allowed to send ten smiles daily.

What is ‘Bootcamp’?

‘Bootcamp’ is an online course about dating that members of FindSomeone can enrol in for free.

How do I join ‘Events’?

You can join an Event organised by Gold members of FindSomeone by sending in an RSVP to the said event.

Why can’t I see past the 3rd page of the matches tab?

Only premium members of FindSomeone are able to view past the 3rd page of the matches tab.

SECURITY
What security features does FindSomeone offer?

FindSomeone has published terms of usage which are strictly observed and moderated by FindSomeone administrators. 

A member is being abusive. How do I block the user?

You can block the user from messaging you by clicking the ‘Report this member’ link found at the bottom of his or her profile.

How can you report a profile?

You can report the user to FindSomeone moderators by clicking the ‘Report this member’ link found at the bottom of his or her profile.

You did not find your question? Ask us!

Security

Does FindSomeone sell your data?
No, FindSomeone does not sell your data.
Was FindSomeone hacked in the past?
No, FindSomeone was never hacked.
How accurately does FindSomeone track your location?
FindSomeone tracks your approximate location.
Do your FindSomeone profile pictures or profile information appear in Google Search Results?
No, your FindSomeone photos and personal information will not appear in Google Search Results.
Who can view your pictures on FindSomeone?
Only paying FindSomeone members can view your pictures.
Is your phone number required for signing up at FindSomeone?
No, you can sign up at FindSomeone without a phone number.
Can you erase your personal data on FindSomeone?
Yes, FindSomeone provides an option for users to erase their data.

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  • We have carefully reviewed over 3,579 dating services
  • Our dating site reviews and results are objective and independent in contrast to many other comparison sites
  • We update our reviews every month based on new site/app offerings and feedback from our readers
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Founder of DatingScout and Author of the book "Online Dating for Dummies"
Chris founded DatingScout 17 years ago, and today he is one of the leading Online Dating Experts. He is the author of the book "Online Dating for Dummies" and the author of the Internet's largest online dating study analyzing 20 Million Profile Pictures with artificial intelligence. Chris Pleines holds a master degree in media science and appeared in numerous television interviews and publications to give expert advice as well as tips about online dating.