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The best Erotic Dating sites in comparison

By Chris Pleines • Last update:
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  1. Our most popular
    Rank 1 Collarspace logo

    Collarspace

    BDSM community for people who practise the lifestyle

    Members
    178,000
    Women / Men
    28% / 72%
    Age
    25-44
    From
    Free
    Safe, sane and consensual approach
    Over 1.6 million worldwide members
    Score 2.5 out of 5
    Poor
    Visit Collarbase.net Read review
  2. Rank 2 Jerkmate logo

    Jerkmate

    Adult webcam platform for watching live sex cams

    Members
    30,000
    Women / Men
    20% / 80%
    Age
    18-34
    Live chats with amateur and professional models
    Free website with paid premium access
    Score 5.0 out of 5
    Excellent
    Visit site Read review
  3. Rank 3 SDC logo

    SDC

    Swingers dating for couples and singles in the lifestyle

    Members
    1,000
    Women / Men
    33% / 67%
    Age
    45+
    From
    $20.83/mo
    One of the oldest global swingers communities
    Events for members to meet safely
    Score 5.0 out of 5
    Excellent
    Visit site Read review
  4. Rank 4 AdultMatchMaker logo

    AdultMatchMaker

    Casual dating for singles and couples in Australia

    Members
    500,000
    Women / Men
    30% / 70%
    Age
    35-54
    From
    $31.94/mo
    Over 2.5 million members in Australia
    No mobile app available
    Score 4.5 out of 5
    Excellent
    Visit site Read review
  5. Rank 5 Stripchat logo

    Stripchat

    International webcam site for erotic live shows

    Members
    1,300,000
    Women / Men
    24% / 76%
    Age
    18-34
    From
    $33.32/mo
    Thousands of models from around the world
    Free live shows and interactive toys
    Score 4.5 out of 5
    Excellent
    Visit site Read review
  6. Rank 6 Red Hot Pie logo

    Red Hot Pie

    Casual dating for singles, couples and groups

    Members
    400,000
    Women / Men
    40% / 60%
    Age
    25-44
    From
    $6.34/mo
    Over three million members worldwide
    Uncensored explicit photos from members
    Score 4.0 out of 5
    Very good
    Visit site Read review
  7. Rank 7 RoyalCams logo

    RoyalCams

    Online webcam site for virtual sexual satisfaction

    Members
    150,000
    Women / Men
    37% / 63%
    Age
    18-34
    From
    $16.67
    Auto DJ and contests among special features
    Tokens used as virtual currency
    Score 4.0 out of 5
    Very good
    Visit site Read review
Chris Pleines
Founder of DatingScout and Author of the book "Online Dating for Dummies"
Chris founded DatingScout 17 years ago, and today he is one of the leading Online Dating Experts. He is the author of the book "Online Dating for Dummies" and the author of the Internet's largest online dating study analyzing 20 Million Profile Pictures with artificial intelligence. Chris Pleines holds a master degree in media science and appeared in numerous television interviews and publications to give expert advice as well as tips about online dating.