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FindSomeone Experiences & Opinions New Zealand

Experiences and opinions of other visitors that were mediated via FindSomeone.
3.5good
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FindSomeone is a dating site for Kiwis and New Zealand residents seeking lasting relationships
  • Highly moderated by site administrators
  • No mobile app available
Relationships Casual dating Finding love
Is FindSomeone right for me?
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Members in New Zealand515,000
Women / Men 48% 52%
From$4.95/mo
Age 18-24 25-34 35-44 45-54

12 FindSomeone experiences from real users

1.7/ 5
★★★★★
17%
recommend FindSomeone
58%
got a date
12 reader reports
What readers liked
  • Easy to access and use
  • Detailed and informative profiles
  • Genuine participants
  • Privacy protection
  • Easy cancellation or opting out
What readers complained about
  • Technical problems, crashes, and slow access
  • Fake or scam profiles and messages
  • Poor customer service and outage communication
  • Inactive or outdated member profiles
  • Low seriousness among some members
70 years
ChrisVerified FindSomeone user ★★★★★

Strange women. One didn't want to further our relationship because we didn't read the same books (we never met). One made contact then a week later broke off contact because she wanted someone younger (my age is quite clear on my profile). One visited me once, freaked out because I have a dog and then stopped any contact (again, the fact that I have a dog is clearly stated on my profile). Last one visited me a couple of times but thought it was okay to lecture me on various things, including my dog, my garden and the fact that I still have some of my deceased wife's clothes at home. She took a huff when I pointed this out and left immediately. I think it would be a good idea for all the women to ascertain what they really want from the site before they join up. So far my experiences have not been good and have left me with hurt.

Does not recommend FindSomeone
70 years
JacquelynVerified FindSomeone user ★★★★★

Too many scammers and men with very outdated photos.

Does not recommend FindSomeone
58 years
PatriciaVerified FindSomeone user ★★★★★

It's the same people on there for years and years, players. No one seems serious.

Does not recommend FindSomeone
50 years
LenVerified FindSomeone user ★★★★★

To many overseas scammers

Does not recommend FindSomeone
65 years
TinaVerified FindSomeone user ★★★★★

The site can be quite glitchy, especially off your phone. Have encountered about 3 scams, and the Findsomeone administration has contacted me about it. Site ‘crashes’ for long lengths of time

Recommends FindSomeone
75 years
JohnVerified FindSomeone user ★★★★★

They had a major malfunction a couple of weeks ago and NO communication with members for days. They don't take down members who have been inactive for months. Photos are well vetted but not dated. Some are 10 years old or more.

Recommends FindSomeone
60 years
RickVerified FindSomeone user ★★★★★

There are a lot of fake profiles. I find it hard to believe that there are so many people with nothing better to do than waste time writing garbage to people they never intended meeting. I got to the stage where I was asking people to post a photo of themselves with something showing the current date and locality to prove they actually existed.

Does not recommend FindSomeone
58 years
Chris ★★★★★

Website is SLOW, SLOW, slow and crashes daily. Almost impossible to sign onto most days. Basically they take your money and run a half-speed service!

Does not recommend FindSomeone
60 years
NealVerified FindSomeone user ★★★★★

Major problems. Has been virtually inaccessible for over a week. No announcements or response from them about the problems. Message board full of frustrated members saying farewell. A complete joke and a poor reflection on trademe. Closing my account.

Does not recommend FindSomeone
48 years
RebeccaVerified FindSomeone user ★★★★★

Majority of males are divorced, have kids and/or ex partner's, or they are out of jail and are generally uneducated anx uncultured. They don't dress properly and lack basic manners that women are expecting from a man.

Does not recommend FindSomeone
42 years
AnnaVerified FindSomeone user ★★★★★

no customers service at all, terminated paid membership without explanation, is it a money fraud? no reply, trademe's find someone website has cancelled my paid membership within 3 days Should go to the court to solve this problem, you can't treat people/your customers unfairly or fraudulently, breach consumer guarantee act, fair trading breach, simply breaching the law by not providing service that consumer paid for! Dear Sir/Madam, please kindly let me know why the system says that my profile disabled, have been a paid gold member on the findsomeone just for few days. Haven't communicated on the website yet, just browsing, so what the problem with my account, is it discrimination by your staff members who just delete people they didn't like or envy beautiful profiles ?! I didn't do anything wrong? Please kindly explain. Now has problem log in, system says that account has been disabled?! According to the consumer guarantee act does you provide any consumer protection? please kindly solve the problem with my paid subscription, thank you! you don't have customer support phone number, and didn't reply to my email. money fraud??no service for paid membership, breach fair trading act, breach consumer act, no service guarantee

Does not recommend FindSomeone
56 years
Kirsty ★★★★★
Does not recommend FindSomeone
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