"I have been using Pink Sofa for a while now. Initially, It was not easy for me to sign up. My profile had been removed twice before it was approved. I waited literally for days just to find out that my account was not approved. Anyhow, on my third try, I used my phone to sign up and logged in thru my Facebook account. Finally, it was approved! So I started using the app. I discovered people with the same interests as me in forums. However, I would not be able to send and receive messages if I did not subscribe to their premium membership so, I did, even though it's a bit pricy. At the moment, I get to talk to several other users. Hopefully, I find my best match soon." -Kassey, 36
Pink Sofa Review New Zealand November 2026: Scam or Real Dates?
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What Pink Sofa really costs in New Zealand
Pink Sofa has above average rates on its premium membership. Just like any other subscription, its 12-month plan will save you around 70% as compared to its per month subscription.
If you choose to purchase either the 1-month or 3-month plan, be sure to check your subscription before your plan ends if you do not want to have it renewed. These plans have auto-renew settings, unlike the 12-month plan.
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Is Pink Sofa right for me?Who is signed up on Pink Sofa in New Zealand?
Since Pink Sofa claims to be the largest online lesbian community. The average age of its members is 33 years old. The existence of fake profiles hardly seems to exist, which is probably because of Pink Sofa's approval system.
Pink Sofa members seem to be looking for a serious relationship and interested in meeting up. Most members have premium subscriptions. This may be because you can hardly communicate with other members if you are a free member.
| Women | Men |
|---|---|
| 50% | 50% |
| 18-24 | 25-34 | 35-44 | 45-54 | 55+ |
|---|---|---|---|---|
5% 18-24 |
34% 25-34 |
26% 35-44 |
18% 45-54 |
17% 55+ |
Making contact on Pink Sofa
★★★★★ 3.0/5
- You must be a premium member to be able to send and receive messages
- There is a community section where you can connect with other members
- Anyone can send smiles to any member
- Customisable search criteria
- The site shows the members who are online
- Sending messages for free is not possible
Profile quality
★★★★★ 4.0/5
The Pink Sofa app
Pink Sofa does not have a mobile application. Nevertheless, it can be accessed through its site's mobile version. The mobile version pretty has all the information and features of the desktop version of Pink Sofa.
Our field test
★★★★★ 3.5/5
Design & usability
Pink Sofa mainly makes use of white, gray, and pink colors on its site. Although the design is a bit out-of-date, it is fairly easy to use. It also exhibits photos of happy couples.
As the founder imparts on the site, she wanted the design and the logo of Pink Sofa to represent a "comfortable and friendly environment." Its main design, magenta pink and sofa logo, clearly reflects her vision for the dating site.
Special features
Pink Sofa has some special features that could not be missed. Check these out below.
Finding people 1
New Members SearchFree
As mentioned above, Pink Sofa has several search options. One of these is the new members search. So if you're up to finding the new girl on Pink Sofa, try this search option.
Showing interest 1
Send SmileFree
Non-premium members cannot send or receive messages. Nevertheless, the 'Send Smile' feature allows them to start contact with other members that they are interested in.
Messaging and contact 1
Chit ChatFree
This feature is like a post where users can start a thread about certain topics. It is a good way to initiate a conversation with other members.
Final results

“Overall, Pink Sofa serves its purpose of creating a safe and comfortable platform where lesbians and gay women can meet and date. Its profile screening makes it less prone to fake users and scammers. However, to interact and communicate more with other members and enjoy most of its features, you must subscribe for a premium. You may want to check out the other LGBT Dating Sites that we have tested to find better deals.”
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Contact details
| Company | Pink Sofa Pty. Ltd. |
|---|---|
| Address | Wilmington, Delaware, United States |
| Phone | 161408086798 |
| admin@pinksofa.com |
Pink Sofa FAQ
What is PinkSofa?
PinkSofa is an online dating site for women who are interested in lesbian fun dating or even a serious one.
Is PinkSofa free?
Creating an account with PinkSofa is free. For access to more site features, you may subscribe and may be required to pay monthly fees.
How do I change my username on PinkSofa?
Changing your username is very easy on PinkSofa. You just have to go to the settings section, then choose 'New username.'
How do I change my email address on PinkSofa?
To update your email address on PinkSofa, go to your settings then click 'Email Settings.'
How to delete PinkSofa account?
'Remove Profile' is available in your settings as well. Reinstatement of account can also be done by simply logging in on PinkSofa.
How many profile photos can I have at PinkSofa?
You are allowed to have one profile photo at a time on PinkSofa. If you wish to replace your profile photo, you may do so. But while waiting for the approval of your new photo, no image will be shown in your profile.
How do I change my password on PinkSofa?
To change your password on PinkSofa, you may go to your settings and click 'Update Password.'
How do I hide my profile on PinkSofa?
Your profile will not be shown from searches and online list when you hide your profile on PinkSofa. You can do this by selecting 'Hide Profile' under 'My Preferences' in your settings.
How do I know someone has sent me a relationship request on PinkSofa?
You will receive a message in your PinkSofa inbox that you have a relationship request through webmistress. A request notification will also appear on your profile page.
Who can see my gallery on PinkSofa?
You may allow any PinkSofa member to view your gallery, but you may also show it only to specific members. Blocked members may not see your gallery.
How do I send a message to someone on PinkSofa?
To send a message on PinkSofa, go to the profile of the member that you want to message. Click the 'Send Message' icon located under the profile photo. Note that you may only send smiles to regular members but not messages.
Who can I send smiles to, and who can reply to my smiles on PinkSofa?
All members may send and receive smiles from anyone on PinkSofa. The only exception is when you block a member or a member blocks you.
How can I stop someone from sending me messages/smiles on PinkSofa?
The block feature will let you restrict members from sending you messages/smiles on PinkSofa. You may find the block feature on the left side of your profile.
Will my credit card be automatically renewed when my PinkSofa subscription expires?
Your subscription will automatically be renewed if you subscribe for 1 or 3 months on PinkSofa. To stop automatic renewal, you may change your settings by clicking 'Cancel Auto-Renewal' under 'My Subscription'.
How do I purchase a gift subscription for someone on PinkSofa?
On PinkSofa, you may not only get a subscription for yourself. You may also buy and send it as a gift. Just look for the 'Gift Subscription' link and type the name of the user who will be lucky to get your gift.
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