"I'm already a member of Uberhorny. But I decided to look for another casual dating site because there's far too many things going on there. I decided to sign up on XMatch and really enjoy the same features, but more genuine and active members. I specifically like the special features. I've shared dozens of erotic stories and blog articles as well. As for meeting new people, I've met up with three other members and had a nice time. My Gold membership is tremendously worth it." - Rain, 39, Nurse
XMatch Review New Zealand October 2026
Another casual dating site of FriendFinderNetworks, how does XMatch differ from its popular sister sites? All about XMatch in New Zealand.
3.5good
XMatch is an adult dating site for people looking for hookups and casual dates
- Three times more male users than female ones
- Only paid members can view profiles and message
Erotic adventures
Hookups
Casual dating
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last updated
Members in New Zealand1,100,000
Women / Men
34% 66%
From$17.79/mo
Age
XMatch New Zealand in 10 seconds
- Adult dating site that caters to users looking for hookups and casual dates. Learn more about XMatch members here
- There are three times more male users than female ones - Learn more about the members here
- Has extensive search functionality that helps you find people who share same sexual interests
- Lots of bots and fake profiles
- Only paid members can view profiles and use the messaging feature. Learn more XMatch costs here
- Women often post hot pictures that leave little to imagination
Is XMatch right for you?
Find out if XMatch is the right service for you or if there are better options.
Better than XMatch
Who is XMatch for, and not for?
XMatch is for…
- Adventurous people looking to find people who share the same kinks
- Singles wanting to fulfill their sexual fantasies with no strings attached
- People looking to land casual dates
- For people looking for swingers, threesomes, and couple fun swap
…and not for
- Serious daters looking for long-term relationships and profound connections
- People uncomfortable with graphic content and lewd language
- Singles with conservative sexual beliefs and values
- For singles who want to fall in love
XMatch pros & cons
- Easily find matches with extensive search functionality and kink profile section
- Filled with uncensored content to fulfill sexual fantasies
- Web version of dating site is surprisingly user-friendly and easy to navigate
- A lot of fake profiles and bots
- Virtually almost no way to use any contacting features for non-paying members
- Cancelling membership subscription can be challenging
- Does not have a dedicated mobile app
What XMatch really costs in New Zealand
Compared with other dating services, XMatch is average-priced.
Gold Membership
Gold Membership pays for contacting features and full profiles. It is a subscription that renews automatically.Total
1 month
47.08 NZD / month
47.08 NZD
3 months
31.36 NZD / month
94.08 NZD
Our pick: 3 months cost 53.36 NZD, or 17.79 NZD per Month, a 62% saving versus the first Gold row. It pays for contacting features and full profiles, so we prefer it.
12 months
23.50 NZD / month
282.02 NZD
1 month
31.36 NZD / month
31.36 NZD
3 months
17.79 NZD / month
53.36 NZD
Token
Token packs give access to some premium features without Gold. Token purchases renew automatically and can cost less than membership.Total
100 coins
0.19 NZD / coin
18.86 NZD
185 coins
0.17 NZD / coin
31.44 NZD
500 coins
0.16 NZD / coin
78.60 NZD
1,000 coins
0.16 NZD / coin
155.63 NZD
XMatch costs last updated on Oct 17, 2026
Payment options in New Zealand
Credit CardCheque
No anonymous payment.With XMatch you cannot pay anonymously, the charge appears on your bank statement.
On your bank statement
Various, Inc. is the billing company on the statement
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XMatch has a premium membership called Gold, which is offered in three different package durations of 1, 3, and 12 months. Availing of the 3- or 12-month premium subscription gets you huge discounts.
You can enhance your membership with an add-on called Standard Contacts. This is also offered in three duration packages. When you get this add-on feature, free members will be able to view your profile and contact you as well.
If you wish not to buy a subscription, you can also use Points to access some of the premium features. You can buy points in three different packages, which can be a cheaper alternative than a Gold membership.
Gold membership on XMatch makes you unstoppable when contacting other users. Almost all important contacting features of the site are exclusive to paying members.
All plans, including the purchase of Points, are auto-renewed. You can cancel this function from your Account Settings.
Free vs. paid services in New Zealand
FeatureFreeGold Membership
Participate in special features
includedincluded
Add users to your Hotlist
includedincluded
Send winksSend winks to show that you are interested.
includedincluded
Broadcast your own show
includedincluded
Watch live shows of live models
includedincluded
Search profiles
includedincluded
Read a single message
includedincluded
Use of contacting features
not includedincluded
View full profiles of other members
not includedincluded
Advanced search filtersPremium users can search for other members using the site's advanced search filters.
not includedincluded
IMIM or Instant Messaging is available for premium users. You can send instant messages to members that catch your attention.
not includedincluded
TippingYou can send tips to members you want to impress.
not includedincluded
GiftsSend gifts to members you are interested in.
not includedincluded
You can try special features, add users to your Hotlist, send winks, broadcast your own show, watch live shows, and search profiles for free. Free access also lets you read a single message, but sending messages needs paid access.
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How to cancel your XMatch subscription →
Try XMatch free →Who is signed up on XMatch in New Zealand?
Exclusively on DatingScout: online member numbers for dating services are usually far off, so we estimate how many people are really on XMatch from traffic data and interest, updated monthly, with history.
The total member population of XMatch is massive, as it is combined with the member base of other FriendFinderNetwork dating sites.
The site is predominantly composed of men—with 70% of the member population. But there are also active female members on the site. There is also a percentage of members who signed up as couples.
Most of the members of XMatch are within the age range of 24–35. These are young professionals who are looking for a casual encounter during their lonely nights.
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Rough estimate of active members
30,000
Weekly active members in New Zealand
1,100,000
Members in New Zealand
4.4
App Store rating in New Zealand
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Estimated active members, last 6 months
Gender
20%
18-24
32%
25-34
24%
35-44
14%
45-54
10%
55+
Age of members
Last data update: October 2026
How does XMatch work?
Search filters are not free to use
Members can earn credits to use on the website when they host broadcast shows
Adult chatrooms are available for everyone
Watch live videos of sexy members for free
See the hottest and most top-rated videos
Signing up at XMatch
★★★★★ 4.0/5
Sign up with
Username & password
Where
Website only
Minimum age
18
Browse without an account
No
Couples account
Yes
Required information
- Username
- Date of birth
- Location
- Your gender
- Partner's gender
- Profile bio / greeting
Optional information
- Your relationship status
- Your ethnicity
- Your physical appearance
- Personal questionnaire
- Profile picture upload
Verification
- Email verification required
XMatch.com will require new members to active their accounts by clicking the link they will send you. By doing so, you'll be more attention from other members and notifications for new messages and flirts.
Making contact on XMatch
★★★★★ 3.0/5
- You can add users to your Hotlist for free
- You can send tips to other members
- Joining adult chatrooms is possible for free members
- Search filters are expensive
- Send IM (Instant Message)
- Sending messages for free is not possible
Profile quality
★★★★★ 3.0/5
- Profiles can only be viewed by premium members or if you buy credits
- You can authenticate your account to get a verification badge
- Free members can view a quick profile of another member through a pop-up window
- You can bid to be a top fan of a member's profile
- Profiles are moderately detailed
- Profile pictures are visible to everybody for free
The XMatch app
- XMatch has no mobile application
- It has a mobile-optimized version
- The mobile version is compatible with any mobile browser
- The mobile site has the same features as the site
- Mobile version is easy to use
XMatch doesn't have an active mobile app, but you can always use its mobile-optimized version for free. The mobile version is compatible with any mobile device and is accessible through any mobile browser.
The mobile version is easy to use and has the same features as the desktop version.
Our field test
★★★★★ 4.0/5
Design & usability
The design of XMatch is similar to the design of its sister sites. In fact, the only different thing is the logo.
All features can conveniently be accessed from the tabs in the header menu. Each tab has a corresponding drop-down menu that further reveals the sections of each category.
XMatch likes to use boxes and grids to display the many elements found on each page. This encourages a clean look and easier navigation for members of all age.
One thing that XMatch can improve on is the font size of profile descriptions and the different articles found on the site, including blogs and erotic stories. The font is somewhat too small, and the text can slightly be difficult to read, especially for older users of the site.
Special features
XMatch has several unique features for its free members. These features can help you get a more enjoyable time on the site even without physically meeting up with someone.
Finding people 2
Hot or NotFree
Hot or Not is a roulette-type matching where you will be given a photo of another member to vote for. You can choose if the member is Hot or if he or she is Not.
Advanced search filtersPaid
Premium users can search for other members using the site's advanced search filters.
Showing interest 5
Bling Free
Blings are gifs of rich media that you can use to comment on other members' photos and profiles. These often include gifs and animated text that show erotica.
WinksFree
Send winks to show that you are interested.
TippingFree
You can send tips to members you want to impress.
GiftsPaid
Send gifts to members you are interested in.
Top FanPaid
You can become a top fan by visiting another member's profile and clicking on "Become Top Fan." To become a Top Fan, you must pay XMatch points.
Messaging and contact 3
Live ActionFree
This is a page where you can find a list of members and models who are currently doing a live show. You can join a broadcast for a minimal fee.
Adult chatroomsFree
You can join adult chatrooms and enjoy chatting with hot and sexy members.
IMPaid
IM or Instant Messaging is available for premium users. You can send instant messages to members that catch your attention.
Community and events 5
BlogsFree
Blogs are pages of members who post articles about sexual topics.
MagazineFree
You can find advice, steamy information and erotic pictures that are curated by XMatch moderators.
Sex AcademyPaid
You can join in on available courses that delve into topics around sex and kinks.
ContestsFree
This consolidates all existing contests you can join as well as entries of members from past contests.
Erotic StoriesFree
In here you can find real stories from XMatch and other FFN members. You can also share a story if you have one.
Other extras 1
Adult MoviesFree
This feature will take you to AdultFriendFinder's porn page.
Final results
3.5good
“XMatch is a reliable platform if you want to find a casual encounter near you. Sign up for free on XMatch to satisfy your erotic desires. If you think XMatch is not for you, browse our other Casual Dating reviews to find your ideal site.”
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tested October 2026
Signup4.0
Making contact3.0
Profile quality3.0
Field test4.0
Overall3.5/ 5
Alternatives: Better than XMatch
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Cancelling your XMatch subscription
How you can cancel
- Via your profile settings on XMatch
Contact details
| Company | Various, Inc |
|---|---|
| Address | 910 E. Hamilton Ave. Suite 600, Campbell, CA. 95008 |
| privacy@friendfindernetworks.com | |
| Phone | 1-888-575-8383 |
Do subscriptions auto-renew?
Subscriptions renew automatically, cancel at least 1 day before your current term ends.
Money-back guarantee
- XMatch offers a money-back guarantee with a full refund
- You have 3 days to cancel and get your money back
Do your credits expire?
Credits expire after 1 month.
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Who owns XMatch?
Friend Finder Networks own XMatch.
Who can join XMatch?
Anyone over the age of 18 can join XMatch.
MEMBERSHIP
How do I join XMatch?
Fill out the form on XMatch's home page.
Can I use the site even if I don't avail of the XMatch premium membership?
Yes, browsing through the site is free.
Does XMatch offer free trials?
No, XMatch does not have any free trial promos.
Is XMatch Gold Membership auto-renewed?
Yes. Unless cancelled, your Gold membership is auto-renewed for the same price and duration package.
How do I cancel my membership?
You can cancel your XMatch membership in your Account Settings.
Can I get a refund for unused time?
XMatch does not give out refunds under any circumstance.
USABILITY
How does XMatch work?
XMatch provides a platform where singles and couples can interact with other members and schedule sexual encounters.
Why can't I see full profiles of other members?
Only premium members can see full profiles of other XMatch members.
How do I message other users?
Click the green button 'Send IM' or click 'Send Message' to the other XMatch user.
Does XMatch have an instant chat function?
Yes, XMatch has a chat function.
What are Tips?
Tips are credits you can give to another XMatch user.
What are XMatch Live Models?
Live Models are professional models who host live webcam videos, which you can watch and participate in.
How do I become a Top Fan?
You can become a top fan by visiting another member's profile and clicking on 'Become Top Fan' on his or her profile. You have to pay XMatch points if you want to become a Top Fan.
How do I earn Points?
XMatch lets you earn points when you do some things on their website. However, you can also buy points for a low price.
SECURITY
What security features does XMatch offer?
XMatch has a published Terms of Usage and Privacy Policies.
I want to report a member, how do I that?
You can report an XMatch member by going to their profile and clicking the 'Report' button.
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Security
- Does XMatch sell your data?
- No, XMatch does not sell your data.
- Was XMatch hacked in the past?
- No, XMatch was never hacked.
- How accurately does XMatch track your location?
- XMatch tracks your approximate location.
- Do your XMatch profile pictures or profile information appear in Google Search Results?
- Yes, your XMatch photos and personal information can appear in Google Search Results.
- Who can view your pictures on XMatch?
- Only paying XMatch members can view your pictures.
- Is your phone number required for signing up at XMatch?
- No, you can sign up at XMatch without a phone number.
- Can you erase your personal data on XMatch?
- Yes, XMatch provides an option for users to erase their data.
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