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Swinging Heaven Review New Zealand November 2026: Fakes or real hot dates?

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4.0very good
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www.swinghaven.net
Swinging Heaven is a dating site for swingers looking for casual sexual encounters
  • Forums, message boards and chat rooms
  • Nudity allowed in forums and chat rooms
Swingers Erotic adventures Flirts
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last updated
Estimated active members in New Zealand30,000
Women / Men 40% 60%
From$25.26/mo
Age 18-24 25-34 35-44

Swinging Heaven New Zealand in 10 seconds

  • Swinging Heaven is a dating site made especially for swingers who are looking for sexual fun and casual encounters
  • It started in the UK and has ever since created localized websites for different countries to cater to local swingers such as Australia, New Zealand, South Africa, Ireland, and Canada
  • The site houses an active swinging community with its forums, message boards, and chat rooms
  • Nudity is allowed on forums and chat rooms
  • The website is highly inclusive of gender and sexuality
  • The website offers a personal ad feature where users can place ads and other details and wait for others to respond
  • Swinging Heaven has no available mobile application
  • Offers general free services and options to upgrade: Learn more here

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Is Swinging Heaven right for you?

Find out if Swinging Heaven is the right service for you or if there are better options.

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Who is Swinging Heaven for, and not for?

Swinging Heaven is for…
  • For singles who are looking for sexual fun with no strings attached
  • Couples looking for erotic adventures and casual encounters
  • For people looking for swingers, threesomes, and couple fun swap
…and not for
  • For people looking for serious relationships and deep commitments
  • For singles looking for true love and possibly marriage
  • Individuals who have strict and conservative beliefs about dating and sexuality

Swinging Heaven pros & cons

  • Swinging Heaven organizes events and meet ups for a better swinging experience
  • The website provides a discreet and safe environment for its members
  • Swinging Heaven welcomes all genders and sexualities
  • The website has no mobile application to keep up with its growing population
  • There is a limited number of single women on the website
  • There are fake profiles on the website due to its lack of verification

What Swinging Heaven really costs in New Zealand

Compared with other dating services, Swinging Heaven is average-priced.
Silver Membership
Membership for messaging and premium extras like adult photos and videos, multiple chat access, and full chatrooms. It auto renews unless you cancel at least 1 day before the term ends.Total
1 month 49.92 NZD / month 49.92 NZD
3 months 37.75 NZD / month 113.25 NZD
6 months 25.26 NZD / month 151.58 NZD
Our pick: 6 months for 151.58 NZD, that is 25.26 NZD per month, 49% less per month than 1 month.
12 years 13.88 NZD / year 166.58 NZD
Gold Membership
Membership for messaging and premium extras like adult photos and videos, multiple chat access, and full chatrooms. It auto renews unless you cancel at least 1 day before the term ends.Total
1 month 66.58 NZD / month 66.58 NZD
3 months 49.97 NZD / month 149.92 NZD
6 months 33.32 NZD / month 199.92 NZD
12 years 19.44 NZD / year 233.25 NZD
Platinum Membership
Lifetime membership for messaging and premium extras like adult photos and videos, multiple chat access, and full chatrooms. It does not renew.Total
lifetime 308.25 NZD / lifetime 308.25 NZD
Swinging Heaven costs last updated on Oct 9, 2026
Payment options in New Zealand
Credit Card
No anonymous payment.With Swinging Heaven you cannot pay anonymously, the charge appears on your bank statement.
On your bank statement
Symbios Solutions, the company shown on card statements
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There are several free features on the site but there are fun premium features available only when you upgrade such as:

  • Unlimited messaging
  • Watching adult photos and videos
  • Access to multiple chat rooms
  • All other site functions and features

 

Free vs. paid services in New Zealand
FeatureFreeSilver MembershipGold MembershipPlatinum Membership
3 messages or replies per day includednot includednot includednot included
See some profile photos includedincludedincludedincluded
Profile creation includedincludedincludedincluded
See how many users viewed your profile includedincludedincludedincluded
Send out a quickieA message sent to a group of people who qualify your filters. includedincludedincludedincluded
View other people's profiles includedincludedincludedincluded
Hide activity to specific users includedincludedincludedincluded
See your profile matches includedincludedincludedincluded
See some of the photos in the community gallery includedincludedincludedincluded
Participate in the forums and chatrooms includedincludedincludedincluded
Unlimited messaging not includedincludedincludedincluded
Adult photos and videos not includedincludedincludedincluded
Multiple chat access for couples not includedincludedincludedincluded
Adjust activity feed settings not includedincludedincludedincluded
Who's looked at your profile list not includedincludedincludedincluded
Large photos and videos not includednot includedincludedincluded
7 chatroom webcams not includednot includedincludedincluded
Full chatroom access not includednot includedincludedincluded
DoggingIf you want to know site or location of a predominantly British activity that involves outdoor exhibitionism in car parks, wooded areas and the like. not includednot includednot includedincluded
StoriesTell all about your swinging and or dogging escapades. not includednot includednot includedincluded
Photo adsCreate advertisements for your swingers needs and specifications. not includednot includednot includedincluded
Free account lets you read a single message, send 3 messages or replies per day, and use profile and forum features. Paid plans add unlimited messaging, adult photos and videos, and fuller chatroom access.
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Who is signed up on Swinging Heaven in New Zealand?

Exclusively on DatingScout: online member numbers for dating services are usually far off, so we estimate how many people are really on Swinging Heaven from traffic data and interest, updated monthly, with history.

Swinging Heaven's members are usually singles and couples seeking sexual encounters and erotic adventures. The website primarily targets swinger couples and is slowly easing their way into singles who are sexually open to threesomes.

Most of the members are in their early 20s and 30s. The website is dominated by male members, this is a slight problem because matches with female singles become scarce and limited.

the majority of the members are actively looking for a swinging experience and are highly open to any sexual activity.

30,000-27%
Rough estimate of active members
50,000
Weekly active members in New Zealand
80,000
Members in New Zealand
JunJulAugSepOctNov
Estimated active members, last 6 months
Gender
WomenMen
40%60%
Gender
Age of members
18-2425-3435-4445-5455+
20%
18-24
20%
25-34
40%
35-44
10%
45-54
10%
55+
Age of members

Where Swinging Heaven is most popular in New Zealand

Strongest regions

  1. Canterbury100%
  2. Auckland92%

Last data update: November 2026

How does Swinging Heaven work?

Sign up by providing basic information and creating a profile that reflects your interests and preferences

Public chat rooms and forums are available for discussions on various topics, enabling users to engage with the community

The platform provides messaging capabilities, including instant messaging and chat invitations, to facilitate communication between members

Making contact on Swinging Heaven

★★★★★ 4.0/5

  • There is a free search and all the filters are available for all account types.
  • Not all the results in the free search tool can be viewed, some profiles can be opened by premium members only.
  • Even if you don't use the search tool, you will receive contact proposals.
  • There are a lot of channels for communications: a personal message, chat rooms, forums, video chat rooms, and bulletin boards.
  • There is a function to write your own story which can be fiction or non-fiction as long as it's under the erotica genre.
  • Everybody can send messages for free
  • Swinging Heaven has a chat function

Profile quality

★★★★★ 4.0/5

  • The profiles are detailed and resemble popular social media sites
  • Profile information can be filled out anytime
  • Hide your profile
  • Viewing photos in larger sizes
  • There are fake profiles due to its lack of identity verification
  • Profiles are pleasantly detailed
  • Profile pictures are visible to everybody for free
  • Photo albums can be uploaded later.

The Swinging Heaven app

  • There is no app available for Swinging Heaven
  • Swinging Heaven has a mobile site
  • The mobile version can be accessed through any browser
  • Easy to use
  • Has the same features as the web version

Swinging Heaven has no available mobile application at the moment, but it has a mobile version. The mobile version can be accessed through any mobile browser and has the same features as the website. The mobile version has a great design and is easy to use.

Our field test

★★★★★ 4.0/5

Believe it or not, it was easy to find a friend in Swinging Heaven. Most of the members that  I have encountered are very mature. I was never sent a nude picture unless we reached that level of trust. People will actually answer your questions even if it is not swingers or dating related. No one has ever been rude or answered me sarcastically in the public chat rooms. I like how the moderators of the site keep the list of swinging club updated. The address and schedule of the clubs are posted handy on the site for everyone to access. This site has also given me more ideas where my sexual desires are concerned. Dogging is definitely something that I would try, and thanks to this site I will be able to keep track of these activities.

Design & usability

The design is clear. The buttons are easy to understand and if there is an uncommon word used, you will see an explanation underneath that word as what the site did in "Dogging." The overall feel is simple and the functionalities are uncomplicated. People of any age will surely familiarise with the site within only a short period of using.

Special features

Swinging Heaven makes it easier for swingers to connect with each other by creating the following special features:

Finding people 1

Photo adsFree

Create advertisements for your swingers needs and specifications.

Community and events 1

StoriesFree

Tell all about your swinging and/or dogging escapades.

Other extras 1

Dogging

If you want to know site/location of a predominantly British activity that involves outdoor exhibitionism in car-parks, wooded areas and the like.

Final results

4.0
“If you want to find genuine swingers near you, Swinging Heaven is one of the best places to start looking into. The members are sexually adventurous, but never will you feel harassed by the members.”

Chris Pleines, Founder of DatingScout and Author of the book "Online Dating for Dummies"
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tested October 2026
Signup4.0
Making contact4.0
Profile quality4.0
Field test4.0
Overall4.0/ 5

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Activity
30,000 est. active members
11,000 est. active members
500,000 members
Costs and pricesSilver Membership
1 month:
49.92 NZD / month
3 months:
37.75 NZD / month
6 months:
25.26 NZD / month
12 years:
166.58 NZD
Full Membership
1 month:
49.92 NZD / month
3 months:
33.30 NZD / month
6 months:
27.77 NZD / month
12 months:
20.83 NZD / month
Silver Membership
1 month:
81.67 NZD / month
3 months:
41.67 NZD / month
6 months:
31.94 NZD / month
Free features
3 messages or replies per day if you are on basic account.
See some profile photos
Profile creation
See how many users viewed your profile
Send out a "quickie" which is a message you send to a group of people who qualifies your filters
View other people's profiles
"Hide" your activity to specific users
See your profile matches
See some of the photos in the community gallery
Participate in the forums and chatrooms
Engage in speed dating events
Become part of SDC communities
Add travel plans to the Travel calendar
Use the invitation program
Include yourself in the photo and video spotlight
Add your photo to the SDC login page
Include a second profile location
Post parties (but pending approval)
Get updated by new offered travels
3 Winks
Add to favourites
Premium features
Unlimited messaging
Adult Photos and Videos
Multiple Chat Access for Couples
Adjust your activity feed settings
Who's Looked at Your Profile List
Large Photos and Videos
7 Chatrooom Webcams
Full Chatroom Access
Contact other members
Update or change your profile
Access to the webcam chatroom
Validate and be validated by other members
See all profiles and pictures
Use the Instant Messenger
Add posts in the Swingers blogs
Offer your service to other members
Join a party and add yourself in the guest list
Access to the voyeur cam
Participate in different site contests
Start 25 conversations per day
Conversations never expire
Unlimited Member Videos Daily
Chat Live 24/7
View 4 Webcams in Chat
5 Private Galleries
Private Audio/Video Calls
Validate Members
Wink at 25 Members Daily
Show When Last Online
Post on Noticeboard
Priority Support
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Cancelling your Swinging Heaven subscription

How you can cancel

  • Via your profile settings on Swinging Heaven

Contact details

CompanySymbios Solutions Ltd.
AddressSymbios Solutions Ltd., 16-18 Barnes Wallis Road, Segensworth East, PO15 5TT, United Kingdom
Phone0370 490 0000
Emailinfo@swingingheaven.co.uk

Do subscriptions auto-renew?

Subscriptions renew automatically, cancel at least 1 day before your current term ends.

Money-back guarantee

  • Swinging Heaven does not offer a money-back guarantee
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Swinging Heaven FAQ

What is Swinging Heaven?

Swinging Heaven is an online dating website where swingers can connect and have sexual fun without strings attached. The website accepts all genders and sexuality and promotes a safe and discreet swinging experience.

Who owns Swinging Heaven?

Swinging Heaven is owned and operated by Symbios Solutions Ltd.

USABILITY

Why can't I access the chat room?

If you can normally enter the chat room and all of a sudden there is a problem, please check the chatroom forum. Most common issues are raised in this forum by other site members and Admin so you can ascertain whether others are having problems.

Where do I read new messages?

New messages that your profile that you haven't read yet will appear highlighted with a darker background and in bold. As soon as you open the message, the sender will be able to see that you've read it.

How do I create a group?

You can start your own group by mouse clicking Groups in the top menu of the site, listed under Entertainment. Using the form at the top of the page you can customize the privacy of the group, the group name, what the group is about and add a logo if you wish to do so.

How do I join a group?

Once you have located a group that you would like to join, mouse click on the 'Join' button. If you cannot see this button, the group privacy may be invite-only.

Can I test how my profile looks from the point of view of other members?

To change from 'Edit Mode' to see how your profile will look to others, select the Disable Edit Mode option.

MEMBERSHIP

How do I cancel my account?

The process will involve email confirmation and will take effect immediately.

Can I still recover an account that has been canceled?

You can't. Once an account has been canceled, the process is irreversible.

What if I don't want to delete my account, and just cancel subscription?

Members who pay monthly for subscriptions may cancel by going under the Subscription heading, and then choose the Cancel button.

What to do if my account has been banned?

When you login, you may receive a "You have been banned" message which will give you the specific reason. To fix this, you may send a support ticket inside the site.

How can I show private albums to other people?

If there's someone on the website who you'd like to send an album invite to, firstly view their profile. Use the contact menu to select Contact then Invite to album.

SECURITY

What information do other users see about me?

Other members will be able to view your profile page and associated information such as adverts, unless you've chosen to block that particular viewer.

Are my personal details safe?

All personal details (such as email addresses) are held in a secure database and are completely confidential.

How do I report cases of user abuse?

All genuine cases can be dealt with immediately by the Moderators and Admins.

You did not find your question? Ask us!

Security

Does Swinging Heaven sell your data?
No, Swinging Heaven does not sell your data.
Was Swinging Heaven hacked in the past?
No, Swinging Heaven was never hacked.
How accurately does Swinging Heaven track your location?
Swinging Heaven does not track your location.
Do your Swinging Heaven profile pictures or profile information appear in Google Search Results?
No, your Swinging Heaven photos and personal information will not appear in Google Search Results.
Who can view your pictures on Swinging Heaven?
All Swinging Heaven users can view your pictures.
Is your phone number required for signing up at Swinging Heaven?
No, you can sign up at Swinging Heaven without a phone number.
Can you erase your personal data on Swinging Heaven?
No, Swinging Heaven does not let you erase your data yourself.

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