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SocialSex Review New Zealand October 2026

Are you looking for some casual fun? Decide if SocialSex is for you after reading our in depth review! All about SocialSex in New Zealand.
3.0fair
Screenshot of the SocialSex website
SocialSex is an adult dating site for hookups and casual relationships that supports LGBTQ+ members
  • Supports LGBTQ+ members
  • Premium needed to contact members
Hookups Casual dating Flirts
Is SocialSex right for me?
last updated
Members in New Zealand80,000
Women / Men 21% 79%
FromUS$12.50/mo
Age 18-24 25-34
“SocialSex is becoming popular and making noise in the adult dating world. In terms of features, it has a lot to offer. However, it's hard to contact and connect with other members unless you pay for a premium membership. There are a lot of pop-up ads as you browse the site. This can be a hassle for most users. Nonetheless, it is promising. But if you are looking for a more stable and more tried and tested site, you may check out other Adult Dating sites that we have reviewed.”

Chris Pleines, Founder of DatingScout and Author of the book "Online Dating for Dummies"
Is SocialSex right for you?

Find out if SocialSex is the right service for you or if there are better options.

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What SocialSex really costs in New Zealand

Compared with other dating services, SocialSex is average-priced.
Gold
Gold membership includes messaging, complete profiles, webcams and hardcore porn access. It renews automatically unless you change that setting.Total
1 month 34.95 USD / month 34.95 USD
2 months 34.98 USD / month 69.96 USD
12 months 12.50 USD / month 150.00 USD
Our pick: 12 Month Gold costs 12.50 USD per month, 64% less than the first Gold option, for 150.00 USD total. It pays for messaging, complete profiles and Gold extras.
Silver
Silver membership covers contacting members, IM and chat, plus profile access. It renews automatically unless you change that setting.Total
3 days 1.95 USD / day 5.85 USD
1 month 29.95 USD / month 29.95 USD
3 months 19.98 USD / month 59.94 USD
SocialSex costs last updated on Oct 1, 2026
Payment options in New Zealand
Credit CardCheque
No anonymous payment.With SocialSex you cannot pay anonymously, the charge appears on your bank statement.
On your bank statement
EPOCH or similar processors are the billing name on statements
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Gold Membership Features

  • Be on top of the Search Result
  • Watch hardcore porn videos
  • Access other members' webcams
  • 100-day guarantee
  • View member profiles
  • Contact other members
  • IM and chat

Silver Membership Features

  • 100-day guarantee
  • View member profiles
  • Contact other members
  • IM and chat

Both Gold and Silver Membership will be billed as KAMPARRITR to protect your privacy. You may use your credit card or checking account for the payments. All plans are set to auto-renew by default. You may adjust this setting as you wish. If you would like to cancel your premium plan, you will be billed for a separate charge under the name EPOCH, Cobill.com, Jettis.com, or Webbilling as mentioned on their page.

Free services
  • Registration
  • View profiles
  • View basic profile
Paid services
  • Get access to hardcore porn
  • Send messages to all members
  • View complete profile

How to cancel your SocialSex subscription →

Is SocialSex right for me?

Who is signed up on SocialSex in New Zealand?

Exclusively on DatingScout: online member numbers for dating services are usually far off, so we estimate how many people are really on SocialSex from traffic data and interest, updated monthly, with history.

Members who join SocialSex are liberated people or those who would like to explore their sexuality through short-term relationships and hooking up with new people.

Based on available data, there are more males than female members. You'll find members from all genders and sexual orientation. You'll even find couples and be their third wheel. The site welcomes any member who is at least 18 years old. But most of them are young adults from 18 to 34 years old.

You'll always find online members and most of them reply or interact with others.

3400%
Rough estimate of active members
20,000
Weekly active members in New Zealand
80,000
Members in New Zealand
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Estimated active members, last 6 months
Gender
Age of members

Last data update: October 2026

How does SocialSex work?

Sign up by specifying your gender, the gender(s) you're interested in, age, location, and preferences regarding sexual activities

Use filters to find members based on location, age, gender, and specific sexual preferences

Clearly state your interests and boundaries to attract like-minded individuals

Making contact on SocialSex

★★★★★ 2.5/5

  • Contacting is mostly for premium members
  • See who's viewed your profile
  • Get matched to other members
  • Meet others in the chat room
  • Advanced searching is available

Profile quality

★★★★★ 3.0/5

  • Detailed profile information
  • Viewing of the complete profile is for premium members
  • Upload photos and videos
  • Post a profile status
  • Rate a photo

Our field test

★★★★★ 2.5/5

"As soon as I finished my registration process, I felt that this site is not for me. It actually had ads in every click! I hate ads. Even though I wanted to try the premium, I had encountered several ads along the way to the payment page. So I stopped".- Rica, 29

"SocialSex is just like any typical website around. Has a lot of stuff going on. Cannot do anything with it unless I register for premium. Not even a trial period. Also, the design is too loud. I'm a bit minimalist, so I don't really like seeing the page." -Mati, 26

Design & usability

Design and Usability

SocialSex design is playful and fits the taste of the younger generations. It has colorful interface and the fonts used are playful as well. Nonetheless, the icons used are easy to identify, and even not-so-techy members will be able to navigate.

It currently doesn't have an app version which will be more convenient for members who are always on-the-go. They could use their mobile browsers instead if there's a need to check the account while being outside and with no access to the computer.

Special features

Here are the special features of SocialSex:

Final results

3.0fair
  • Best score: Signup and Profile quality, both 3.0
  • Weakest: Making contact and Field test, both 2.5
Is SocialSex right for me?
tested October 2026
Signup3.0
Making contact2.5
Profile quality3.0
Field test2.5
Overall3.0/ 5

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SocialSex FAQ

FACTS
What is SocialSex?

SocialSex is an adult dating site for members who are looking for some casual hookups.

Does SocialSex have an app?

No, as of the time of testing, there is no available app version for SocialSex.

Is SocialSex for all genders?

Yes, SocialSex welcomes members from all genders. In fact, they support and advocate for members of the the LGBTQ+ community.

Who created SocialSex?

Social Sex was created by Chretien Schouten in 2012.

Can I register for SocialSex using my Facebook account?

No, you can only use a valid email address to register to SocialSex.

Is SocialSex a scam?

No, SocialSex is a real site where members can find real members. However, not all members are ensured to be real, nonetheless, the site itself has a legitimate process of collecting payments and the site is secured.

USABILITY
How to delete SocialSex account?

You have to contact the site to request for the deletion of your account. Provide information such as username, address, email address, and some credit card/ account details.

How can I pay for my SocialSex premium account?

You can use your credit card or checking account to pay for your premium account. Just choose the plan that you want and follow the payment procedure on the page.

How can I block another SocialSex member?

On the member's profile, you can find the second to the last icon below the profile picture. It says "Block User." Click on the icon and confirm.

How to report another member in SocialSex?

Click on the last icon below the member's profile photo. It is color yellow with a clack exclamation point. You can read below the icon the words "Report Abuse."

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Chris founded DatingScout 17 years ago, and today he is one of the leading Online Dating Experts. He is the author of the book "Online Dating for Dummies" and the author of the Internet's largest online dating study analyzing 20 Million Profile Pictures with artificial intelligence. Chris Pleines holds a master degree in media science and appeared in numerous television interviews and publications to give expert advice as well as tips about online dating.

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