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“LGBTQ online dating can be intimidating in a straight-oriented industry, and HER has achieved its goal of solving just that. HER isn't originally a gay dating app just translated for lesbians, but an app with only queer women in mind from the very start. However, its re-branding from Dattch to HER in 2015 changed its system from 'lesbian dating app' to 'lesbian social app'. Yes, you will find women here, but you'll never know if they want to date or something more platonic. If you want other sites and apps that are more straightforward about dating, check our Matchmaking service category.”
Find out if Her is the right service for you or if there are better options.
If you cancel your premium subscription, you can still use the benefits of the membership until the end of the period. But you won't be refunded for the remaining days. When it's due to renew, your premium membership will be inactive and you won't be billed again. You can only ask for a refund within a month of a transaction.
Uninstalling the app or deleting your profile doesn't automatically cancel your subscription.
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Is Her right for me?This site promotes inclusivity for all female members regardless of what they classify themselves— lesbians, bisexuals, and queers.
Specifically designed for LGBTQ+ women, including lesbians, bisexuals, and queers
Users must sign up through Facebook or Instagram, available on iOS and Android platforms
Utilizes a swipe mechanism for liking profiles, with matches formed through mutual likes
Offers a social feed for interactions and posts events to encourage community engagement
Basic services are free, with premium features like seeing who's online and unlimited swipes available through subscription
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No verification is required to sign up at Her.
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"The app isn't the best when it comes to the dating part. The profiles are either too insubstantial, or some of the girls I talk to end up ghosting me. There's just not a lot do unless you upgrade to premium. However, I loved using this app to see which events will be attended by a big number of lesbians, since my gaydar in public isn't always the best. I've met a lot of great girls through that alone, and some of them I ended up going on dates with." - Bella, 24
"I've read tons of good reviews about Hers so I've decided to try it. Well, I got no regrets! It's the best among all the female-exlcusive apps. But still not the best dating app though. Overall, it is a good app, it has a good design, the price is just good. So I'm all good." -Sheena, 27
The design of the app is modern and sophisticated. Colours used for the app are pleasing to the eyes and the app is generally organised.
It is easy to navigate even for those who are just not familiar with dating apps.
Since it is part dating app and part social media platform, members have more things to do with it. They can also know more about other users by reading their posts and status updates. It is also one way for members to voice out what they are feeling without worrying about being judged,
HER created some special features exclusively curated for lesbians to meet and interact.
Meet is the main feature of the entire app. Here you are presented with different profiles who meet your age and distance preference. You can swipe to either like or dismiss them. Once you mutually like each other or are friends, you can message each other.
The feed is a feature that lets you interact with members real-time without needing to be matches or friends. You can like or comment on posts, and you can add your own image or text post. Being active on this feature exposes you to more people and increases your visibility.
Events can be viewed and posted in the Feed. The best lesbian events in your area are posted here: from music festivals to cookouts to concerts to comedy shows. Attending these events will let you meet and socialize with lesbians.
This feature lets you express your dating mood and intentions in real time through temporary, customizable tags, offering a more fluid and emotionally authentic way to connect in queer dating.
Looking for sites like Her, apps like Her or simply the best Her alternatives? Here are the services that did better than Her in our test, and below you can compare Her side by side with any other dating site we have reviewed.
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Dattch was created in 2013 and it was renamed to HER in 2015.
The HER app is already available for both Android and iOS devices.
You'll find success stories on the Blog section of their official website.
They take extra measures (only allowing log-ins from Facebook and Instagram) to weed out fake profiles, but it would be best to err on the side of common sense and report users you find suspicious.
Blocking people is a permanent action and can't be undone.
You can only send messages to Friends and Matches. You can get them by adding someone as a friend, and by liking people who have already liked you.
Make sure you are using the latest version of the app. If you're still encountering problems, you may contact their support team.
You can sign up using your Instagram account.
This notice means the other person already deleted their account. Even though you can still your messaging history, you won't be able to see their profile or send a message anymore.
On the bottom of the screen, select "Me". You will find a white pencil icon on the bottom right corner of your current profile picture. Click on this to change your photo.
No, you can't. But once she confirms it, you can just remove her from your friends list.
No, it won't. The HER team doesn't even have the capacity to.
Yes, but only after you purchase a premium membership.
You have to go the App Store or Play Store in your device, find where your subscriptions are being managed, and follow the instructions from there.
Go to "My Profile", select "Settings", then "Support", and finally choose "Close account". Once you delete your account, it can't be reactivated.
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