FetLife Statistics
FetLife user statistics
≈ 68,000
estimated active members
68,000
Members in New Zealand
24% ♀ · 76% ♂
Gender ratio
28,624
New members per month
Member numbers you find online are usually very inaccurate, so we estimate how many people are really on FetLife from traffic data and interest in the service, updated monthly. (2026-09)
Age distribution of FetLife users
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Where FetLife is most popular
Strongest regions
- Taranaki100
- Southland69
- Hawke's Bay63
How often FetLife is searched for in each region, from Google Trends over the past 12 months. The darkest region scores 100; 50 means half as many searches. This is relative interest, not a member count. (Google Trends, 2026-09)
Founder of DatingScout and Author of the book "Online Dating for Dummies"
Chris founded DatingScout 17 years ago, and today he is one of the leading Online Dating Experts. He is the author of the book "Online Dating for Dummies" and the author of the Internet's largest online dating study analyzing 20 Million Profile Pictures with artificial intelligence. Chris Pleines holds a master degree in media science and appeared in numerous television interviews and publications to give expert advice as well as tips about online dating.
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