"3Somer is a dream come true for those looking for a threesome like me. At irst I didn't reallt kno how to start, but with the app, I became more confident and I felt that I belong. I just using the app for a month when I met a lovely couple. I'm lucky to have this great app and met wonderful people." Candice, 28
3Somer Review New Zealand October 2026
Does the phrase "The more, the merrier," applies in 3Somer? Read more and find out! All about 3Somer in New Zealand.
3.0fair
3Somer is a dating app for singles and couples interested in threesomes
- Discreet and anonymous platform
- Mostly male members, all genders welcome
Swingers
Erotic adventures
Flirts
Is 3Somer right for me?
last updated
Members in New Zealand5,000
Women / Men
25% 75%
From$13.89/mo
Age
3Somer New Zealand in 10 seconds
- 3Somer is an app created for people who want to engage in threesomes
- A discreet and anonymous platform for singles and couples who want to swing
- Heavily dominated by male members
- The app is open to all genders of different orientations
- Offers threesome with couples, single girls and single men from all sexual preferences
- Available for iOS and Android users
- Doesn't have a web version
- Offers general free services and options to upgrade - Learn more here
Is 3Somer right for you?
Find out if 3Somer is the right service for you or if there are better options.
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Who is 3Somer for, and not for?
3Somer is for…
- If you're searching for erotic adventures and casual encounters
- Singles who are into casual flirting
- For people looking for swingers, threesomes, and couple fun swap
…and not for
- For people looking for serious relationships
- For singles who want to fall in love
- For people who are in monogamous relationships
3Somer pros & cons
- 3Somer is inclusive of race, gender, and sexuality
- Has an active pool of swinging members
- Premium packages are affordable compared to other swinging apps
- The app has occasional bugs and glitches
- Gender and username can't be changed/updated later on
- The app has no verification systems to check authenticity of profiles
What 3Somer really costs in New Zealand
Compared with other dating services, 3Somer is average-priced.
Premium
12 Month membership. You pay once for 12 months and it renews after 1 day unless you cancel. It gives access to paid features such as instant chatting and unlimited likes.Total
1 month
25.82 NZD / month
25.82 NZD
3 months
19.44 NZD / month
58.32 NZD
6 months
18.33 NZD / month
109.98 NZD
12 months
13.89 NZD / month
166.65 NZD
Our pick: 12 months for 166.65 NZD, that is 13.89 NZD per month, 46% less per month than 1 month.
3Somer costs last updated on Oct 20, 2026
Payment options in New Zealand
Via Mobile Phone
No anonymous payment.With 3Somer you cannot pay anonymously, the charge appears on your bank statement.
On your bank statement
Apple or Google Play (service name may show)
3Somer costs screenshot
The billing is recurring based on the current package that you are using. You can cancel it anytime but make sure that you cancel it before the next cycle starts. Payments are directly charged to your phone's Apple Store or Google Play Store.
Payment will be based on your location's currency.
Free vs. paid services in New Zealand
FeatureFreePremium
Registration
includedincluded
Photo uploading
includedincluded
Searching and using search filters
includedincluded
Messaging mutual likesIf you and the other member or couple liked each other, you can start a free conversation right away.
includedincluded
Reversed SearchReverse searching is finding members who are looking for someone like you.
includedincluded
View who liked you
not includedincluded
Unlimited voice messages
not includedincluded
Unlimited likes and follows
not includedincluded
Instant chatting with other members
not includedincluded
Free membership lets you register, upload photos, search with filters, and message mutual likes. You can also try reverse searching and send a free message when both sides like each other.
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Is 3Somer right for me?Who is signed up on 3Somer in New Zealand?
Exclusively on DatingScout: online member numbers for dating services are usually far off, so we estimate how many people are really on 3Somer from traffic data and interest, updated monthly, with history.
The members of 3somers come from different backgrounds but are like-minded when it comes to their sexual preferences. They all are up for a threesome relationship. Regardless if they are just new to it or already veterans in this kind of set-up, 3somer is a community for them.
Based on available data, males are dominant on the site. They cover almost 80% of the total number of members. The age is not equally distributed as well. Most of them are young adults from 18 to 34 years olds. It can be concluded that the younger generations are more open to explore having a threesome.
It doesn't matter if you are straight, a member of the LGBTQ+ community, single, in a relationship, or married. You are always welcome to join 3somer.
190-24%
Estimated active members in New Zealand
500
Weekly active members in New Zealand
5,000
Members in New Zealand
4.1
App Store rating in New Zealand
4.4
Google Play rating worldwide
250
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190
190
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Estimated active members, last 6 months
Gender
29%
18-24
53%
25-34
13%
35-44
3%
45-54
2%
55+
Age of members
Last data update: October 2026
How does 3Somer work?
Designed for individuals and couples seeking threesomes, providing a discreet platform for erotic adventures and casual encounters
Has thousands of members in the USA, mostly males in their 20s and 30s
Available for iOS and Android
Free with basic functions, offering optional premium membership for enhanced features
No email verification required
Signing up at 3Somer
★★★★★ 3.0/5
Sign up with
Username & password
Where
Website, iOS and Android app
Minimum age
18
Browse without an account
No
Couples account
Yes
Required information
- Username
- Location
- Your gender
- Profile picture upload
Verification
- Photo upload required
3Somer will not ask you to verify your email or phone number. However, you will be required to upload a photo of yourself to boost your profile.
Making contact on 3Somer
★★★★★ 3.5/5
- Contacting features are mostly for premium members
- Send free messages to members who mutually like you
- Use the search and reversed search features
- Adjust search filters for free
- View online members
- Voice messaging is available
- Everybody can send messages for free
Profile quality
★★★★★ 3.0/5
- View profiles for free
- Upload profile photos for free
- Gender cannot be edited
- Profile information is not detailed
- Most profiles are not complete
- Provide some additional information on the "My Story" part
- Profile pictures are visible to everybody for free
Our field test
★★★★★ 3.5/5
"I've read a lot of good reviews about this app, so I convinced my wife that we'll join. The experience is just typical. I think it's a good app, but is overrated by its users. I set my expectations too high so I was a little bit disappointed on its interface. Not to mention that it doesn't have a desktop version." Roy, 35
Design & usability
The design of the app is minimalist. It is very easy to understand and you will not find it overwhelming to the eyes. Most users appreciate the layout and the overall look of the app, however, some find it boring too.
In terms of usability, members will not have a hard time navigating it. Because of its simplicity, even members who are just new to using such app will have an easy time.
Special features
Here are some of the special features of 3Somer:
Finding people 1
Reversed Search
Reverse searching is finding members who are looking for someone like you.
Showing interest 1
LikeFree
This feature gives you a chance to meet another member and send a message to them for free. If you and the other member/couple liked each other, you can start a free conversation right away!
Final results
3.0fair
“3Somer is an interesting app. With a lot of good online feedback, it wouldn't hurt to try it if you really are into threesomes. Based on the testing, it is rare to find fake members around and there were no bots observed.”
Is 3Somer right for me?
tested October 2026
Signup3.0
Making contact3.5
Profile quality3.0
Field test3.5
Overall3.0/ 5
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Cancelling your 3Somer subscription
How you can cancel
- Via the app store's subscription management
Contact details
| Company | 3Somer |
|---|---|
| support@3Somer.org |
Do subscriptions auto-renew?
Subscriptions renew automatically, cancel at least 1 day before your current term ends.
Money-back guarantee
- 3Somer does not offer a money-back guarantee
3Somer FAQ
What is 3Somer app?
3Somer app is an app created for couples or individuals who are looking for a threesome relationship.
Can I join 3Somer with my partner?
Yes, 3Somer accepts members as a couple, or as a single who is looking for a couple to have a threesome.
Does 3Somer have a website version?
3Somer has a website but it doesn't have the functions of the app. It only shows the link where you can download the app on your device.
Is 3Somer legit?
3Somer is a real site where you can meet members looking for a threesome. It has high ratings in the app stores.
Is 3Somer available for Androids?
Yes, you can download 3Somer from the Google Play Store for your Android device.
What is reversed search in 3Somer?
Instead of searching for those who you prefer based on your criteria, find those who are interested in finding you.
What are "likes" in 3Somer?
You can click the likee button if you like that member, if you're lucky and he/she/they like/s you back, you can start messaging each other for free.
USABILITY
How can I join 3Somer?
First, you have to download 3Somer on your mobile device. Then, register using your basic information.
How can I message another 3Somer member?
On a user profile, you'll find the chat icon. Click on it to start chatting. You can also instantly message a match for free.
Can I upload a photo in 3Somer?
Yes, uploading a profile photo is free on the app. It is a requirement for registration.
Can I edit my 3Somer profile?
You can edit other information on your profile except your gender and username.
Can I view online 3Somer members?
Yes, you can view the list of online members for free.
ACCOUNT AND MEMBERSHIP
Does 3Somer require paid membership?
Not necessarily. You can join 3Somer for free. It also has some free features that you can use.
How many premium membership package does 3Somer have?
3Somer offers a premium membership for 1 month, 3 months, 6 months, and 12 months. The benefits are the same but it differs in the duration.
How can I pay for 3Somer membership?
3Somer membership can be paid through your Apple Store or Google Play Store Accounts.
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Security
- Does 3Somer sell your data?
- No, 3Somer does not sell your data.
- Was 3Somer hacked in the past?
- No, 3Somer was never hacked.
- How accurately does 3Somer track your location?
- 3Somer tracks your approximate location.
- Do your 3Somer profile pictures or profile information appear in Google Search Results?
- No, your 3Somer photos and personal information will not appear in Google Search Results.
- Who can view your pictures on 3Somer?
- All 3Somer users can view your pictures.
- Is your phone number required for signing up at 3Somer?
- No, you can sign up at 3Somer without a phone number.
- Can you erase your personal data on 3Somer?
- Yes, 3Somer provides an option for users to erase their data.
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